Blogoversary Chapter Four: Once More – With Feeling

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2012 has seen a lot of negativity surrounding reviews already. Let’s state for the record that we’re only halfway into January and it’s been pretty hot and heavy since the first week of January. It began with a bang in the young adult author arena. I know many of you already know the breakdown, but I’ll just link today’s Guardian coverage (when you make the Guardian or HuffPo with your shenanigans, it just got real-er) for anyone who’s still not seen it and is curious. Oh, but look, they didn’t actually highlight the review in question – that’s right here.

So plenty of us thought that mess was bad enough – and the link above doesn’t even cover the other YA author drama of recent times – but it seems the stuff can’t stop piling on. There was that Mike Coe author over at The Self-Publishing Review, who could not stop commenting. For quite along time. Have drink and popcorn at the ready, it takes a long, winding while and it’s possibly set a new bar. Today alone we see that it’s not just YA authors and self-publishing authors who are feeling the sting of reviews, fantasy authors and fans are as well. (Would it be cheesy to admit this Liz Bourke woman might be my latest hero?)

I know four years of blogging is really a drop in the bucket compared to other sites, but, folks, it’s enough to have seen all the constantly recycled drama surrounding reviews, especially negative/critical reviews – it’s never anything that new, just different versions of the same. You could pretty much put it in one Tupperware container for storage, if you cared to file it away. I’ve blogged on the topic before. The one that comes to mind is this one back in 2010, so I’m not going to repeat what I said there. Except to say in retrospect, the title should have read Negative Reviews ARE the Blogosphere’s Redheaded Stepchild. They really are. Maybe I can add a little to that older post, though.

Besides the obvious subject of subjectivity, books are an emotional experience. I’m willing to bet this is so for many, many readers. I’m willing to bet this is a pleasing thing for many, many authors. To elicit an emotional response when I’m reading a book is a wonderful thing for me. It means that book affected me and I want to be affected by what I read. The absolute last thing I want to feel toward something I’ve spent my money on/taken time with is apathy. Even if the book all-out pissed me off, all of it or just a passage or two, I’m smart enough to realize this isn’t the end of the world, that others might like it – and that this is all A-OK.Personally, I want people to enjoy books I may not have. It’s fun to talk with people that feel the same as me about a book, but at the end of the day, if my critical feelings of a book convince you to try reading, then I have still accomplished what I intended to do – interact and share something about books. Anything.

What’s not OK is trying to silence people that speak up when they don’t like books. To ridicule and prod and whittle down to the point that their feelings on the book are nothing. Readers in general are a sharing kind of people. We like to share our views and feelings on books. I’m back to the betting in the sense that I’m willing to bet many of us go into at least some parts of our reviews to express how we feel about the book in question. I’m seeing a lot of calls for being objectionable and professional amongst other rules and so-called etiquette for reviewers.

Guess what? Those don’t apply. The internet is so crazy full of people trying to tell others how to review that it’s a wonder sometimes anyone bothers to review. Won’t lie, I’ve thought about closing Lurv. Sometimes you can’t ignore the drama, like the people that call reviews worthless, the arguments over whether or not reviews hurt sales, the author’s feelings, the do this the don’t do that, the shoulds and should nots. It’s quite enough to send anyone into fits if it gets bad enough. And it really does feel that bad when you see bad author behavior – which has now expanded into editors and agents joining in, in some cases – these days. I’ve heard around the Blogosphere that some feel afraid to critically review as a result. That is the saddest thing of all to me. Those people can’t hurt you.

The only advice I will ever give someone who is either new to blogging and seeing stuff like that (and therefore maybe a little intimidated – hey, I was there once), or is tired of it and wonders of it’s worth doing, this blogging and reviewing thing – it is. If it gives you any kind of happiness, ignore the other stuff. If it’s your stress relief, then definitely ignore the crap that’s been happening lately. You don’t have to let it apply to you. Anyone who thinks they have a right or any kind of power to silence a critical thought or feeling on a book, or to dictate a reviewer’s style, is mistaken. Plain and simple. They could dig up an ancient stone housed in a golden box, chiseled with Reviewer’s Etiquette at the top, followed by a numbered list of do’s and don’ts and I’m afraid I still could not take them seriously. Nor would I want to.

My reading is often emotional. My reviews express my feelings. However your reviews express your process is entirely up to you and nobody else. That, really, is the end. Proceed, readers and reviewers, with being your awesome selves. All this early-in-the-year craptasticness, too, shall pass.

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Fantasy Mix 1& 2 Winners

Hope everyone’s having a great weekend! Been cooler than usual here and windy – great sitting-by-the-fire days as well as for reading. I’m gearing up for another contest next week, but before I can post it we need to know who won the previous week’s contest, right? Congrats goes to:

Nicole the Weaver (pack 1)

Mollie W (pack2)

Congratulations! I’ve sent email notices. Please try to respond within a week. Thanks everyone and come back on Tuesday to try again for more books!

 

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Blogoversary Giveapalooza: Fantasy Mix Packs

I think I get mostly urban fantasy books to review – and a plethora of some of the weirdest books I’ve ever seen. Covers that look like they teleported back to the 1960′s, maybe another planet at that. But that’s not what I’m giving to you. You get the non-Martian variety. This week’s giveaway is a mixture of straight fantasy and more glorious urban fantasy. Dudes, there’s so much urban fantasy peppering my bedroom floor in piles, I think that might be next week’s giveaway as well.

Fantasy Mix 1:

 

Fantasy Mix 2:

Giveaway Rules: Closed, winners announced soon.

1. U.S. Only.

2. Comment below to enter. PLEASE let me know which pack of books you’d like to win.

3. Winners will be announced in a separate blog post, but I will also email you if you’ve won. My rules have changed in that the winners will be responsible for contacting me with their contact info within a set time before new winners are drawn.

4. You have until Friday, January 13, 2012 at midnight eastern time to enter. Winners will be announced the next day.

That’s it! Go forth and comment…..ooooooh, right about now.

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Blogoversary Chapter 4: My Best Reads

The good thing about blogging is after you’ve accumulated enough years worth of blabber and stuff, you’ve got material to reflect back on. And write about again. One reason, amongst so many, that a lot of us have blogs is to help us remember what we’ve read, how we felt about books that crossed our paths. I raise my hand high, for my memory – IT SUCKS. God forbid I’m ever interviewed (not likely) in person and someone asks me to give a very specific answer about a book I’ve read. I doubt the answer, Go read about it on my blog, would be a very exciting one.

So I thought I’d kick off my blogging reflections on a positive note (well, we’ll see how long that note sings) and think back on what were some of my most favorite reads since starting Lurv a la Mode, the ones that have really stuck with me. The results may have surprised even me, cuz, you know, that crappy memory and all…

I read Poison Study by Maria V. Snyder waaaay back in January 2008, when I first started blogging. I still have vivid recollections of what my imagination conjured thanks to the book’s beautiful imagery, world and characters.While I haven’t been blown away by any of the author’s later works after finishing this series, I still look forward to seeing what ideas she brings forth today and in the future.

May of 2008 started my fixation with this well-known one, but I wasn’t a full-on fan right away. Kate had to convince me, but she most assuredly did in the end (though in hindsight, I now find a character that’s getting drunk off of Boone’s Farm wine in the first opening few pages to be pretty darn funy, though I wasn’t sure what the book was trying to accomplish at first). Count me in amongst the eager fans always ready for more from Kate and Curran.

Because I will never forget the awesome line, “Here, kitty kitty.”

I’ve immensely enjoyed other Linnea Sinclair books since these two, but these are without a doubt some of her strongest in terms of emotional engagement and character development. We all know, if we read scifi romance, how great an author Sinclair is, but these two just made such a huge impression on me.

In 2009, I read the entire Noble Dead Saga, series 1 and I loved it more and more with each book. While this one’s cover leaves a lot to be desired (as well as how the last book ends), I had such a blast gorging myself on these books. I love epic fantasy and wish I could read everything I want to of the genre NOW, but I haven’t and can’t claim to know all there is to know of it. But….there’s no doubt these are phenomenal entries in the genre. Fantastic worldbuilding and characters. I want to continue on the series 2 of the Noble Dead saga, but it’s a work in progress for the authors as opposed to finished like this series was when I came to it. I tried to get into book one of series 2, In Shade and  Shadow, but it was slow for me and I haven’t finished it. Maybe this will be the year because I want to keep up with this saga overall.

Reviews for the series are in this order: 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6

I started out reading as a scifi/fantasy reader, but after I a while I gravitated strongly towards historical romance. Nowadays, I’m obviously heavily again onto the fantasy sector, but Thomas is one of the few historical romance authors these days that can tempt me. This book was so profound for me on a deeply personal level. It’s about two people who love one another deeply, and through that, have the power to hurt one another the most. It’s about making mistakes and having the strength to get past those. Thomas has such a unique voice in the genre and that’s exactly what a seasoned romance reader like me was needing at that time.

Never let it be said that I don’t like to laugh. Cuz I do.

I. So. Do.

Underneath the laughter, though, needs to reside a good story. And this one has that.

IT. SO. DOES.

I sped through this series’ initial three books like some kind of addict. Which, essentially we readers ARE addicts, right? The more good books we read, the more good books we want. This series is a must for anyone that likes paranormal and funny all wrapped up in one.

The greatest part, though, is that the series will now be continuing after we thought it was to end at three books. HAPPY DAYS/

The one that started it all – The October Daye series is one of my best, tried-and-true series to date. They’ve gotten progressively better with each book, but I think homage most deserves to be given to book one, Rosemary and Rue. I still remember getting the ARC for this one from the publisher. Instead of a blurb on the back cover, there was a very long endorsement from the publisher’s head honcho lady person (so sorry I can’t remember name and title). This endorsement was as close to a personal vouch for my loving a book as I’d ever seen before. This person had major faith in McGuire’s talent. Know what? I scoffed at it! I wasn’t convinced.

But book – YOU convinced me. And that publisher big wig was RIGHT.

Know how we readers love to fall back on our beds/couch/Reading Chair of Awesomesauce after finishing a book, whip out a cigarette and sigh in complete satisfaction? OK, well, maybe not (always) the cigarette part, but you get me. I love this book still – so. hard. Check it out here if you don’t believe me. I’m well past the age where teenage drama, antics and romance are entertaining, yet I love the YA genre. Fortunately it is filled with a few major talents and this book exemplifies that. This book is so much more than a teenage drama-fest, though, hence its awesomeness. I’m a little afraid it ruined me for all other contemporary YA.

OK, so I still get all reserved and introspective-like when I see this book cover again. If you’ve seen anything about the book or the movie based on it in the last year or two, you might already know the Big Reveal in the story. You should read the book anyway. Yes, it’s definitely lit fic, but with some speculative fiction (scifi-ish) elements. It is heart-wrenching, gut-punching. I still remember, vividly, scenes this story evoked in my imagination. I’d only heard what a powerful writer Ishiguro is, and it was just exceptional to experience it for myself.

It’s got to be hard for authors to develop a voice that really stands out from the crowd. Let’s face it, there’s a shit-ton of books being published every year. They all want us to read them. They all want us to enjoy them. They all can’t be that level of win, though, that much is clear, especially as it pertains to the individual reader.

This book. Oh man. Upon reading the very first page I fell over, became way too familiar with heart flutterings of joy and that trickster of a book book cupid got me.

Love, folks. Pure love.

The second book, is unfortunately, an almost entirely different story, but I am looking forward to book three still, albeit with heavy reservations. Still, book one is phenomenal.

This entire series is like some kind of nirvana for me. Which I’m sure isn’t what Buddhism is going for, but you get the idea. It’s been my most rock-solid series practically since I began reading seriously. And I feel like Kim Harrison truly knows – and appreciates – that her readers care deeply for what she’s created. When we love to read like we do, readers can just feel that same love that goes into an author’s work. I feel like there’s a connection between me and this series and it’s one of the few that I can honestly say I trust to keep me happy.

After way too many Twilight knock-offs, the YA genre has needed a series like this SO HARD. There’s really only so much of the wishy-washy girls one can take. How many times do we need to see Bella clones fall in love with creepy/jerky/twat-ish young men? Frankly, one series full was enough. Enter this series. It’s so far from the norm in YA right now that it almost IS funny. It’s got a heroine that can pretty much put the rest of them on their knees. And you know what? She’s not perfect. She’s not in the majority. She’s not a victim. I wish more YA was like these books.

Every time I think about this series, I want to hug it. Every time I think about this series and want to hug it, a frackin’ fairy gets its WINGS. There are so many fairies with wings now. You’re welcome, faeries.

For serious, though, I feel like I cannot get enough of these books. Cold Magic was my most favorite read in 2010, and its sequel, Cold Fire, was my best read in 2011. The author’s imagination in the worldbuilding boggles my mind (although I maintain that maybe my mind tends to be boggle-y already, who knows). It has some of the best character development I’ve ever read. There’s nothing I’d change about this series – and for ME not to have any major complaints two books into a series is as near to a historic event as one can get here and Lurv.

And that’s it, folks. My concise list of what books are in my tippy top piles of reads I’d recommend without any reservations whatsoever in the four years I’ve been blogging. You know, if anyone were asking and all. Why such a short list? Well, actually, several in it come with other book in there series, but it does seem like a short list. I suppose it’s because it’s the kind of list that tends to be short. There are still a crap-ton of others I would hesitate to rec after reading and reviewing them here, these are merely the ones that still resonate with me after four years of filtering through books. Which, actually, is no mere feat at all. Reading’s a tough gig. We usually have to wade through a lot of what we don’t like to get to what we love. It’s something of a big ‘ole trial-and-error gig, this reading thing. These are just the ones that make that all worth it.

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UF Sooper Packs 1& 2 Winners

Morning, everyone! Was feeling pretty proactive for once, first thing on a Saturday morning, and I’ve gotten the winners for my first Blogoversary giveaway figured up. Congratulations to:

Dee F and KT J!

Dee F has won Sooper Pack #1 and KT J has won Sooper Pack #2. I’ve emailed the winners, so I’ll b mailing your books out as soon as I get those addresses.

Thanks for coming by and trying for the books, everyone! I’ll be posting another giveaway either this coming Monday or Tuesday.

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